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Never Tell Your Kids
They’re Smart
By : Ann Knapp
So math wasn't my best subject.
Alright, it was my worst subject. I'm more of a
language person, really. Considering my father taught statistics at the
local
university, and that everyone in my tiny town knew him, it was rather
embarrassing. "Hey, aren't you supposed to be good at this," my
friends would ask when they got stuck on a math homework problem.
"Don't
come crawling to me when you need a paper edited," I'd snap back.
I learned quickly that we might all have different talents, but that it
was
hard to focus on the ones I was good at with a big fat "F" on my
report card. On many days, I simply gave up. "Why wasn't I good at
this," I wondered. "I must not be as smart as everyone thinks."
I was beyond needing simple math help. I needed algebra help. I needed
geometry
help. I even needed calculus help by the time I hit the hard college
preparatory courses. Dad was a great math tutor, of course, but
sometimes I
wondered if what I really needed was guidance from a neutral party. I
couldn't
yell at hired tutors because they would, undoubtedly, walk out on me,
and,
sure, I could shriek, scream and be otherwise completely irrational in
front of
an online tutoring system, but computers simply didn't care.
Those algebraic equations still stared back blankly from the screen,
demanding
to be answered. I could vent my frustrations onto Dad like the
temperamental,
adolescent, hormone-breathing dragon I was because I knew he would
forgive me.
But, in the end, getting carried away with such vexations didn't do any
good; I
still had to get my homework done, and I still needed to get it right.
Exasperation that exponentialized faster than answers to
word-problems-gone-wrong just took time I didn't have - not with
everything
else a busy, if reluctant, high school student needed to do.
According to a 1994 report by James D. Wiggins, published in School
Counselor,
the "School Form of the Self-Esteem Inventory scores were more
predicative
of grades than were composite score[s] on [a] standardized test." In
other
words, self-esteem was a better indicator of grades than the types of
standardized tests believed to indicate academic success. Wiggins only
studied
fifth- and sixth-graders in one school, but it was an intriguing report
nonetheless. It indicated what many of us know intuitively, or as most
loving
parents could tell all the academic experts that have spent years
figuring it
out: It's amazing what self-image can do to grades - or visa versa.
While this may be true on its most basic level, successfully building
children's (or any of our) self-esteems is not so simple. It turns out
my
reaction to, "Aren't you supposed to be good at this?" and my
subsequent failure to prove "how smart" I really was perfectly
(eerily) demonstrated the results of recent studies on children's
academic
performance in relationship to the kind of praise they receive.
According to Carol Dweck's research at Columbia
University
(who is now at
Stanford), the type of praise given to a child dramatically affects his
or her
self-image and achievement levels.
Dweck's team studied the effects of a series of experiments on 400 New
York City fifth-graders in which the
children were
either praised based on their intelligence or on their effort after
completing
nonverbal puzzles. In the end, it was the kids who believed they worked
hard,
versus those who simply thought their scores were the result of innate
intelligence, that scored significantly higher on later tests. They
also
expended considerably more effort on the puzzles Dweck's team
administered. In
fact, many in the "You must have worked really hard" group said they
actually enjoyed the most difficult tests - tests they were never
expected to
do well in - while many in the "You must be smart at this" group
simply gave up.
"Emphasizing effort gives [children] a variable they can control. They
come to see themselves as in control of their success. Emphasizing
natural
intelligence takes it out of the child's control, and it provides no
good
recipe for responding to failure," Dweck explained. This proved true
for
every socioeconomic class, both genders (though the most intelligent
girls were
the most dramatically effected), and very young children.
These results were repeated by Dweck's protage, Lisa Blackwell, and
published
this February in the academic journal, Child Development. Blackwell
divided the
700 children in the East Harlem
magnet school, Life
Sciences Secondary School, into two groups. Each group participated in
an
eight-session workshop; the control group was taught proven study
skills, while
the variable group was instructed not only in those same study skills,
but also
participated in modules demonstrating intelligence was not purely
innate.
This latter group of students, taught that new neurons were developed
in the
brain by challenging it, improved their grades and study habits. In
fact, many
of the educators at the school claimed they could spot this group
without being
informed who they were, so dramatic was the difference from the
"control" students. A single semester exposed to Blackwell and
Dweck's techniques reversed what had been a long-standing trend among
these
children.
Blackwell and Dweck's key tenets are that praise, self-esteem, and
performance
rise and fall together - but that the type of praise one receives is of
great
significance. Those with innate intelligence may have stronger
abilities, but
those abilities mean nothing unless one is willing to work hard enough
to push
through challenges.
Children made to believe it is their effort that produces good results
tend to
score higher, according to Dweck, because they believe they have the
power to
control results through their own actions. Kids who simply believe it's
their
intelligence that gets them through become confused and frustrated when
not
everything comes so easily. They may feel powerless to improve the
situation
and do what most any of us would in that situation: they give up.
Devoid of good study habits, none of this means much, of course. I had
to learn
how to study, not just the material itself. Without realizing it, I
guess I
proved Dweck - and for that matter, every old farmer I grew up with --
right a
decade before she began experimenting.
All the good sense in the world doesn't make up for hard-earned, honest
sweat.
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